"If you disagree, wait a few beats, let the thought finish and then explain why. Don't challenge the speaker, challenge the idea." Seth Godin
I so love this statement. Great discussions are born of this from which change can begin to create new spaces to enter into and understanding begin to form.
Active listening can help all of us hear better. Active listening actually stops interruption no matter what is being said and if we are actively listening we are not thinking about what we want to say, but what is being said. If we take a moment to respond we just might not attack but open dialogue with a person and begin to bridge thoughts. We cannot always change minds to match ours but we can delve into what is in their minds. God gives us grace....we should be graceful also.